who does not care, ends up with some competition (Modern woman in Brasil)

     One of this days i was in a bar with my friends, we were talking about dates,we have different names to justify our different stages in relashionship..but no matter what stage we are we all know one thing: "Quem não dá assistência,abre pra concorrência." This say here is very famous,and we all learn since we are very little,doesn't matter if you are a boy or a girl..means that we have to take care of what is ours,by that we understand the other person that is dating you.Suddenly we were all involved in a BIG discussion:the modern woman in Brasil in relashionships today,same rights,etc...my guy friends were saying that the more they go out on dates,more in chock they get,of course we cant forget that Brasil have a very macho culture,and they all cheat what is going on now,is that cheat now is like a gol(goal in soccer game),if you don't give you will for sure receive it..and here is very hard for guys to face that woman have the same rights now,and truth is that woman is getting worst than guys..lol..anyways,this hole discussion made me think..what would be a modern woman in Brasil?

    She would be a woman that loves herself above all, she will not waste actually she doesn't have time for futility and games. She works hard, she is sentimentally independent.   The modern woman is a very good companion,she is brave, a confidant,partner and lover ... The one who sometimes has a sudden attack of jealousy, but still ... she has no shame in admitting she is wrong and run back into your arms. She is the one who can be strong and sweet, messy and beautiful at the same time.

    Anyway ... the Modern Woman is the one who is not afraid of anything or anyone, she faces life, stand for herself, and for what she feels no matter what. So .. after a "investigative process" about these modern women, I found out the worst: She will leave you ... unless you follow rules:

     - Never leave a brazilian modern woman feeling insecure. Previously they used to cry. Today, they just cheat on you, mercilessly. - Other thing: don't think she has crystal ball,and powers. She has to hear from your mouth how much you like her. Any doubts in this matter may lead to negative consequences mentioned above.

    - Don't think it's normal to go out with friends (either to drink, play football ...) more than twice a week, three times is signing certificate of "horned".The modern women hardly get angry about this behavior, however they are categorically "full of love to give" and they still have the need of male presence. If it's not yours my friend ... Well ... then someone else. 

    - When you say you'll call, call, other wise she might call that great ex who was good in bed. (Just saying). She might end up calling someone who will give her attention.

      - Satisfy her sexually. But dont pretend to satisfy her. The "modern women" have a great disposition for sex,especially from 20 to 38 years, they think about it - and they want - to have sex every day (amazingly, but it's the truth) ... well, no need to say that if it is not with you ..

        - Give her attention. But mostly make her realize it. Flirting guys full of bad (or good) intentions are everywhere, and they are experts when they want to take a woman to the sky. So you take her, after all, is she yours or not?? 

       - Forget about playing games and trying to make her feel jealous. insecure woman is a cheat machine.And under any circumstances, make her wonder  that you might be seeing someone else. This "supposition" on their part also opened to a "cheat" so loud that when you wake up, my friend, someone else already exist MUCH MORE "eater" than you ... but the main dish, at this point will be... YOUR woman.

        You know that good looking guy, you know, would go out with your woman anytime. Well .. suddenly the reciprocal can also be true. Simply her, for just a second, think that you deserve ... When you notice ... so try to be less tired. The modern woman also worked all day and probably still has lot of energy to give;like the old men here used to say:"dar uma",means do a quickly one and just turn to the side and sleep.

        - Go back to doing the things you guys used to in the beginning of the relationship. If you started in october clubbing, hanging out in unusual places , exchanging hot emails or spicy phone calls there is a large chance that she misses all of that. The modern woman can not miss these things ...otherwise... 

          Anyway ... That's what they say here "who does not care, ends up with some competition." Plus, if you are next to a woman you really like ... Then  you should know better!you are fully aware that currently the market is not for fishing here (i speak of quality,there's is not a lot of good ones out there), think carefully before playing games and hurting her feelings ... You need to protect her, love her, and especially ... let her know how special she is. She will think a million times before giving a chance to some "hunk" who is all over her. She ... with no doubt, will keep looking at you!