Relashionships...

Always thought dating, marriage, romance has a beginning, middle and end. Like everything in life.
I hate when I hear that conversation:

-yeah,we just broke up..

-wow!you guys were together for so long!

-5 years,yeah..didnt work out.

Why they say that?of course it did work out;work out during the 5 years together,and its just that its over now.And the good thing about life is that you can have many loves.
I do not believe in people who complement each other. I believe in couples which add up each other.

Sometimes you cant even give one hundred percent of yourself to you, how to charge one hundred percent of the other?And also whats up with this thing of beencomplete anyways?we are not perfect!

Sometimes he is true, but he is not good in bed.Sometimes he is affectionate, but not faithful.
Sometimes he is helpful, but it is lazy.Sometimes she have a awesome body, but is not sensitive.
See?we dont have everything. We are not perfect.

Realize which the aspect that is most important to you and invest in it.Sometimes chemistry is a tricky snake.When you have chemistry with someone,you can be doing the laziest thing ever,that its delicious.Its true.And sometimes you have that acrobat sex, but that does not impress you ...I think kissing is important ...kiss is magic, and if the kiss is awesome go for it,if it suck... another Martini please ... and go for another walk.

If he or she dont want you anymore, dont push it. The other has the right of not to want you.So dont argue,dont fight,or cause a scene;if the other person is in doubt,its his or her own problem,the only thing thats its up to you is to decide if you want to wait or not.But yeah,there are people that needs the absence to miss you. The human being is not absolute. We hesitate, have doubts and fears, but if the person REALLY likes you they go after you . No drama.What fun you will find in keep someone by your side under pressure?The cool thing is that someone is with you, just for you. And vice versa. Dont stay with someone because you're pity,or any kind of accident in the middle of the course , or for fear of lonelesss.We born alone. We die alone.

Our thoughts are ours, not shared. And when you wake up, the first impression is always yours, your look, your thinking.There are people who jumps from one romance to another. Why this fear in live in their own company?The truth is that when you care for someone you will start to feel anger, jealousy, hatred, frustration ... It's part of it. You live with another human being, another world, another universe.And things are not always how you want it so again its your choice to stay or let it go....

The worst thing is that people are afraid to get involved.If someone comes with this bulshit, run, after all you are not a therapist. If you dont want to get involved, date a plant. It is more predictable.

In life and in love, we have no guarantees.
Not everyone who asks you out is to marry. Not every kiss is to romanticize.
And not all good sex its to discard ... or fall in love ... or blame yourself ...

Anyway ... who said being an adult is easy??

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